tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post4361090019422300567..comments2023-11-05T01:43:07.619-07:00Comments on Ergo... : The Text Message at 1:43am...Part IIMelaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12071477027784226840noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-19373822174019497922012-12-15T10:01:55.324-08:002012-12-15T10:01:55.324-08:00I just got out of a 6 year relationship and its ha...I just got out of a 6 year relationship and its hard. Sometimes things can look so obvious to other people, but no matter the situation, you get attached and letting go is hard. My ex sent a girl flowers on monday(though we've been broken up for 6 months) and I lost my shit. I mean, crying, panic attack, all of it. This dude sounds like a loser, but its still hard. I dont know what she should do. Life can be so confusing. Arielle-HumblePieVintagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16381868568355788525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-28323402176540480842012-12-08T14:38:51.715-08:002012-12-08T14:38:51.715-08:00Wow. That is just absolutely, completely saddening...Wow. That is just absolutely, completely saddening.<br /><br />It does sound like it's both of their faults, but I fully support her decision to break up with him.<br />I'd like to think that I'd have done the same if I was in her position.<br /><br />I hope that whatever she decides to do, it works out.<br />I'll cross my fingers for everyone involved and hope everyone ends up happy in the end.<br /><br />on that note-<br />i adore your blog.<br />(:<br /><br /><br />allisonleighann.blogspot.comAllison Leighannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05116120902047723828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-49294305589960202152012-12-08T09:15:09.947-08:002012-12-08T09:15:09.947-08:00Wow six years. That's how long I've been w...Wow six years. That's how long I've been with my bf. I can't even imagine ending it after so long. Especially considering they were friends for three years before that.<br /><br />Communication is, in my opinion, the most important aspect of a relationship. You can't make one work without it. It's a shame it took a break-up for your friend and her boyfriend to have a real heart-to-heart. From my perspective, it sounds like your friend needs to move on. If she's been with this guy for six years, and still isn't sure if she wants to take him back and STILL wants to continue an online relationship with a guy she's attracted to, then that speaks volumes for her true feelings. She sounds like an ambitious, intelligent girl who needs to find someone on her own level. After all, even if her ex does get a job, who knows what the future has in store for him...Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-28121056142221145692012-12-08T09:04:51.020-08:002012-12-08T09:04:51.020-08:00ah, relationships! they are always so confusing. i...ah, relationships! they are always so confusing. i agree with the honesty part, it's the only way for things to work.<br /><br />lindsey louise<br /><br />hellomrrabbit.blogspot.com Lindsey Louise Baleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16158525871866334891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-7466518250118563332012-12-07T21:26:14.910-08:002012-12-07T21:26:14.910-08:00I agree, communication and honesty is the best way...I agree, communication and honesty is the best way to go. I honestly hope that things work out for the both of them, together or not. Audrey Allurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04308037894341272695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-36020297952736912532012-12-07T16:06:49.566-08:002012-12-07T16:06:49.566-08:00As someone who had a pretty deadbeat husband, I ca...As someone who had a pretty deadbeat husband, I can say that life is difficult and not always black and white. I agree, what she did wasn't great. But it is damn hard to feel like you're doing everything and your significant other is doing nothing.<br /><br />And honestly... she shouldn't have to tell him to get up and get a job. How old is he? If he's hard age then he should grow up. I don't now, maybe it's hard for me to understand because I've been working for so long but it's just hard for me to get someone that thinks that's okay.<br /><br />Nonetheless, I hope things work out if the best way for them both.Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10206388129869459115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-44107937252547775852012-12-07T14:52:18.495-08:002012-12-07T14:52:18.495-08:00Life is so difficult sometimes, with no right answ...Life is so difficult sometimes, with no right answers. The other guy seems like a great option, but the thing to remember is everyone has problems and no one's perfect, it's more a matter of what imperfect person you want to spend the rest of your life with, dealing with their faults. <br /><br />Loving your blog though!Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06471072470268467242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-84597979493869094712012-12-07T12:13:23.325-08:002012-12-07T12:13:23.325-08:00relationships are tough and messy aren't they?...relationships are tough and messy aren't they? but at the end of the day, the hardships is what ultimately makes them beautiful!Raganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08058305005058349148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-16632105773670012082012-12-07T11:11:34.838-08:002012-12-07T11:11:34.838-08:00It's hard for a relationship to work when one ...It's hard for a relationship to work when one has goals and not the other. The relationship begins to fall apart according to one of my teachers. Anyways I hope it all ends well for the two. <br /><br />Melissa <br />Http://shakeshakee.blogspot.comshakeshakeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10747753532856741786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-18334885670332262352012-12-07T11:01:09.746-08:002012-12-07T11:01:09.746-08:00This is so true! Honesty is so important in any re...This is so true! Honesty is so important in any relationship. I am glad you posted this, I was wondering how everything turned out. xx. McKenna LouMcKenna Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11613498111519455841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-16882221820156746132012-12-07T09:22:22.093-08:002012-12-07T09:22:22.093-08:00Well I think you've got this situation assesse...Well I think you've got this situation assessed pretty well. Honesty & Communication. No matter how much you love someone that is the glue that holds a relationship together. If nothing else, this could serve as a learning experience for them :(Yasmeenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421347098225672822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-48951601312387343322012-12-07T07:48:20.831-08:002012-12-07T07:48:20.831-08:00i really enjoyed this post; it reminds me of what ...i really enjoyed this post; it reminds me of what i went through with my ex. sometimes a person just needs to hear it straight to get them back on the path (the boyfriend). sometimes you just need to find your voice and say what is truly in your heart to salvage a relationship. i hope it works out for your friend and her boyfriend but if not, at least they both learned from this relationship.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-26482242270124104322012-12-07T03:53:38.907-08:002012-12-07T03:53:38.907-08:00Wow... I'm sitting here at a loss for words to...Wow... I'm sitting here at a loss for words to type (and that rarely happens). :) <br /><br />If she truly loves her boyfriend then she should probably pull away from the other guy and give her current bf a chance to prove himself. If she doesn't see any proof of him changing then it's time to go. There is nothing less attractive than a man with no ambition. <br /><br />Last, communication is --so-- important for all of the reasons stated above. <br /><br />Thanks for the update! :) I'm wishing nothing but the best for your friend and you!!!mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14457900572853874272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6725542767488222714.post-79978275387197964182012-12-06T21:13:52.725-08:002012-12-06T21:13:52.725-08:00This was a very insightful post, and incredibly re...This was a very insightful post, and incredibly relatable. :) I just adore your blog...you better keep on bloggin'! ;) hahahaMollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14238815508505975230noreply@blogger.com